They keep scouting me! What can I do?

They're sniffing around your doggie dish to see if you have any food in it. Now the fun starts!

If you have two cities, you can reinforce (do not reassign) scouts to your other city. Keep your main force in sanctuary. The troops you reinforce with will always fight an aggressor. So even if you have about 100 scouts to reinforce with, when they come sniffing around your doggie dish, you dash out from under the bed, bite them on the nose, and dash back under the bed.

Your 100 scouts may die, or if they only send one scout (which a lot of these bullies are wont to do because they don't expect any resistance) you might kill their scout and they won't get any info. Then they might send a larger force of scouts to kill yours. Your reinforcing scouts will probably fight and die, killing some of the enemy when they do. Now here is the key point and the important part:

When they scout you after having lost troops, they will find nothing worthwhile.
Then you reinforce with 200 troops. The next time they scout you, they will lose twice as many scouts, and this is important: they will still find nothing of value.

Then you reinforce with 400 troops, and so on, playing the same game making sure they find nothing of value. Unless they are psychotic, they will stop scouting you and move on to another target that is less savvy.

To reinforce your other city you need to make sure of two things: If you don't have another city, pop into alliance chat and ask if someone would like to reinforce you with scouts. I know that if you see me [Lord Yoho], I love to reinforce my brother and sister Deseret2'ers.
 * 1) You have an embassy of the proper level (and if you're a member of our alliance, you must have at least a level 1 embassy).
 * 2) The farms in the recipient city has enough farms so that they can feed the visiting troops. Reinforcing troops reat the food of the host city.  If you don't have enough food to feed them, they go back home on their own.

If they don't know what you're talking about, point them to this wiki and let them read it.